Some believe accountability helps recovery; others say it adds guilt and shame. When someone you care about refuses help, is tough love ever justified?
Tough love is never justified, let the person know why the person should accept help. It will definitely take time but it is best the person agree to accept help. When the person agree to accept help, it will help the person to heal mentally.
Tough love can motivate change in situations like addiction or avoidance, but also puts in risks when there is mental health crises like depression or anxiety. Evidence-based empathy, validation, and professional support usually heal better than confrontation.